As you can read the headline of the article, I’m gonna talk about love. Whatever I wrote here is all based on my own life experience. I wrote it with from my heart. So, there will be some grammatical error. Just want to share my own opinion about it. Sharing my personal experience about it.
Well, I bet everyone want to feel the love. Being love by someone we love. Loving someone with all our heart and wanting that person to love us the way we love them. If I says I don’t want it, it mean I’m lying. I know everyone wanted to feel it, including me. And I know, it is something that will make your heart….. I don’t know how to describe that feeling but it’s something that can totally change your life. It changes your view about the world. About what’s life really means. And the reason why you’re created in this world.
We love a lot of people in our life. We love our mum, our dad, sister, brother, just name it. Our love for them is undescribeable. You love them with all your heart. You’re always thinks about them. No matter where you are, they’re always in your mind and in your heart. How bad they are, how rude they are, how ugly they are, you still love them. Love is something that you can’t take granted. It’s something really precious. It’s a beautiful feeling. You can fall in love with someone that you’ve just met. But sometime, you can fall in love with someone that you’re just able to see them from a distance. They didn’t know you love them and they didn’t know that you’re exist! Love at first sight. You just see him/her once but suddenly, you fallen in love with that person. Love is strange.
Love teaches you what’s jealousy are. When you’re in love, jealousy will grow together with it. It’s normal to be jealous sometime. It make your love to him/her grow stronger and stronger. But sometimes, jealous could overgrow. It can ruin the relationship too. It can make the person we love hate us. So, you can be jealous but not all the time. Only be jealous on things that need you to be jealous for.
Love hurts. We need to do a lot of scarification in love. Sometimes, we need to let go of that person we love though we don’t want too. But if both of you are truly meant to be together, you’ll meet one day and fall in love again. That’s the beauty of love. Sometimes, we can’t stop loving someone though we said we’ve moving on with our life. Your mind and your mouth might say you’ve forget about that person you love but in your heart, you still love him/her, you still thinking about him/her, still care about him/her. It takes time, longer time to get rid of him/her from your heart and life.
You truly care about the one you love. You’ll do anything to make him/her happy. For example, when you heard the news that your mum is admitted to the hospital, you’ll be panic. You’ll start thinking un-rationally. You can’t think properly. Your mum is always in your mind. “is she ok?” is the first thing that appear in your mind. All the good memories suddenly appears. You’ll start regretting all the sin you’ve made to her. You’ll just hope she will be fine. How annoying she can be sometime, you’ll still love her and care a lot about her. That is love.
You always wanted him/her to be there, right beside you. Always there when you need them. You expected him/her to understand you’re feeling. But you feel like most of the time, she/he doesn’t understand you. Then, both of you started to fight. “I hate you” are the common things a girl would say. She doesn’t really meant it. She still love him though she said she hates him. After a moment, one of them will say “I’m sorry. I shouldn’t do that” and the other will say the same too. Yeah, when you truly love someone, you’ll easily forgive him/her. But sometime, it can make that person to hate the person she/he love forever and can’t forgive him/her.
When the person you love says “I Love You” and she/he meant it, it’s the best feeling that you could ever feel in the world. You’ll start smiling when you’re thinking about the person you love. Love is strange. Love is complicated. Love is the beautiful feeling in the world. Love can change you either in the good or the bad way. Each people have their own way to define love. Everyone want to love and being love by someone. Cause I know, I want to feel it. I want to see what the changes that the power of love could do to me….
Have a nice day. Take care and I Love You. You know who you are. Assalamualaikum :)