wahai pemandu2 semua jenis kenderaan, tak kira la yang kecik atau yg besar, model kenderaan anda harga mahal atau tidak, jenis yg bwk kenderaan2 beroda empat atau dua, tak kiralah ada lessen ke idok, tlglah kalau nk tukar lane tu bagi signal. Tolonglah kalau nk masuk simpang tu bagi signal. Signal stick are built for a reason. They are not built just as an accessories k syg. So gunakanlah ia dengan sebaiknya.
Kalau lampu signal hang tu rosak, tolonglah cepat2 baiki. Hang tau tak betapa pentingnya memberi signal buat kenderaan yg berada di belakang, tepi, atau buat orang yg nk keluar simpang. Anda juga dpt mengurangkan dosa2 orang yg nk keluar simpang tu dari memaki hang yg tak reti nk bagi signal nk masuk sesebuah lorong. Anda dapat memudahkan pergerakan org lain, dan seterusnya membuat hari seseorang amat bahagia. Selain daripada itu, anda juga dpt mengurangkan kadar kemalangan.
Lagi satu. Tolonglah beratur saat jalan tengah jem. Orang lain yang dok penat2 beratur menunggu giliran kat belakang tu, dh 10 jam *yes, itu hanyalah metafora semata, tiada kene mengena dengan yg hidup atau yg telang meniggal dunia* menunggu. Disebabkan orang2 mcm awak, yg mana tahap kesabarannya senipis kertas A4, atau mungkin lagi nipis dari ketebalan sehelai A4, keadaan kesesakan lalulintas semakin teruk. Yup, you don't solve the problem, but you are making it even worse!
Rancanglah perjalanan anda, you know that kau perlu masuk sesebuah simpang, so dari jauh kau sepatutnya dah masuk lane yg betul. Bila nk masuk simpang yg sepatutnya, kau berikan isyarat that shows you are entering the simpang. Ni tak. Dibantainya nk masuk simpanng kat depan. Lagi 50m nk sampai, baru nk tukar lane. Pastu nk tukar lane dari lane paling laju ke lane paling hujung, pastu tak bagi signal, pastuuu... ah byk ah pastu kau!
Lagi satu. Kalau orang dah bagi signal tu, bagilah kami peluang. Mungkin kami dok ralit berborak dgn kawan sebelah sampai terleka sat lagi nk masuk simpang. Jadi sebagai pemandu yang mengakui kekhilafannya, dia pun bagilah signal yg menunjukkan dia nk masuk ke tempat yg ditujunya. Tapi anda pulak dok lagi tak bagi space, tak bagi seinci ruang untuk dia masuk. Kalau dia dok bagi signal, yes.... I'm totally understand why you do that. Tapi hal ini hanya valid on certain occasion. Kalau kau nk potong lain masa kat traffic light, k.... this excuse tidak boleh diguna pakai. Sesungguhnya kesabaran itu separuh dari iman.
And last but not least, tolonglah focus bila nk memandu. Put your phone down, and eyes on the road. Bila jalan jem? You turn on the radio or play your fav cd, and sing along, mcm your own mini karaoke. Janganlah nk dok gatai pi scroll down your IG, FB, Twitter, and your other social media account that you own. Kalau ada orang call? Pakai earphone that are built for answering call, yg jenis ada microphone. Tak pun beli stand yg boleh melekap kat memana bahagian dashboard kau, pasti ckp pakai loudspeaker. Janji tangan hang sentiasa kat stereng. Jgnlah sebelah tangan kat stereng, sebelah lagi dok scroll internet or pegang phone jawab call. Sebab dengan hanya a couple of second your eyes aren't on the road, you life might change forever.
So, jadilah pemandu yang berhemah. Gunakan signal stick tu, jgn nk gatai2 potong barisan sebab semua org pun nk cepat, rancang perjalanan anda, beri laluan untuk kereta yg bagi signal nk masuk simpang, and jgn nk main telefon time memandu.
Ingatlah orang yg tersayang. Anda mampu mengubahnya.
Sincerely,
Seorang pemandu yg sakit hati bila nmpk orang main telefon time memandu, pi potong line time jalan tengah jem gila, yg jenis perangai @#%^&*$ bila dia dah bagi signal nk masuk tapi orang lain takmoh bagi chance, dan jenis tak reti bagi signal bila nk tukar lane or nk masuk simpang.
XOXO, Mira
Wednesday, April 13, 2016
Tuesday, April 12, 2016
What a heartbroken news.
oh my. what a devastating news I received a couple day ago. One of my classmate in Polytechnic just lost her mum. Not sure the caused of death but still, its a really sad news. On top of it, she lost her mum on her birthday. Yup, its was also her birthday .
After receiving the news via wechat, it really hit me hard. It must be difficult for her. The news brought back all the memories of my late dad. I lost my dad when I was 2. But the memories I had while he's still alive isn't that much, and still, the pain is still there.
But I wonder, she has been living with her mum for 22 years so they shared lots and thousand, trillion uncalculate-able memories together. So, for suddenly losing the best person in the world that always be there for you, loving you unconditionally, accepting, raising you up to be the person you are now, must be really really reaaaaaally saaaaaad... Nasib baik I'm still kat office. kalau tak dh berjurai-jurai air mata ni dok turun sambil menulis.
Sebab aku dok terbayangkan mak aku. Kalau suatu hari nanti, tetiba mak pergi dengan tenang selama-lamanya, tanpa sebarang petanda, mcm manalah aku nanti? Walaupun aku ni jenis degil, slalu sangat buat mak marah and sedih, tp biasalah anak2. Perangai mcm mne buruk pun, dia tetap sayang kita. Walau macam mne dia kata kat kita itu ini, she still treated us with love. Walau mcm mne dia compare kita dengan anak2 org lain, kita still her best child she ever have. Dan dia sanggup buat apa sahaja untuk kita, anything you just name it.
For 22 years, you have been living together. Maybe in some cases not technically together, tp masih jauh dimata, dekat dihati. When life gets tough, she's the first person you look for. She gave you advice, keep you strong, your motivation to live. Tapi bila tiba2 she's gone, you felt like you life is now meaningless. Terasa begitu berat untuk mengharungi kehidupan yg akan datang
You have lost your biggest supporter, inspiration in life once one of your parents died. Tak kesah la either one of them left, you still felt empty. Mungkin kalau salah seorang meninggal, you still half your other half. Tapi kalau kau kehilangan kedua-duanya, I don't know how to explain the feeling. Just thinking about it already sound scary, apatah lagi kalau dah realitinya terjadi.
Memang benar mati itu pasti. But I hope that when it is time for my mum to leave the world, she has seen semua benda tentang aku. Dpt tgk anak2 dia semua berkeluarga. Dapat tgk at least anak2 aku cukup la. And that's my hope.
Love your parent while they're still alive. Kiss them, say that you love them walaupun dalam nada bergurau. Cium mereka walaupun kekadang kau saja nk mengusik anak2 buah kau..
That is what I do to my mum. Walaupun kekadang I was just peluk2, cium2 mak bila nk ngusik anak2 buah aku yg kecik2 tu, tp sebenarnya I was being real. Those kiss and hug are sincerely from me. Sebab my family aren't those kind of family yg bagi mereka, ciuman dan pelukan antara ibu-anak/bapa-anak adalah perkara biasa. It felt mcm krik2 kalau out of the blue kau buat mcm tu. So salah satu caranya, gitulah aku buat.
And my mum doesn't have to do anything to show how much she loves me.
Cause everything that she do for her children, are the proof of her unconditional love for you.
I love you Ma <3
After receiving the news via wechat, it really hit me hard. It must be difficult for her. The news brought back all the memories of my late dad. I lost my dad when I was 2. But the memories I had while he's still alive isn't that much, and still, the pain is still there.
But I wonder, she has been living with her mum for 22 years so they shared lots and thousand, trillion uncalculate-able memories together. So, for suddenly losing the best person in the world that always be there for you, loving you unconditionally, accepting, raising you up to be the person you are now, must be really really reaaaaaally saaaaaad... Nasib baik I'm still kat office. kalau tak dh berjurai-jurai air mata ni dok turun sambil menulis.
Sebab aku dok terbayangkan mak aku. Kalau suatu hari nanti, tetiba mak pergi dengan tenang selama-lamanya, tanpa sebarang petanda, mcm manalah aku nanti? Walaupun aku ni jenis degil, slalu sangat buat mak marah and sedih, tp biasalah anak2. Perangai mcm mne buruk pun, dia tetap sayang kita. Walau macam mne dia kata kat kita itu ini, she still treated us with love. Walau mcm mne dia compare kita dengan anak2 org lain, kita still her best child she ever have. Dan dia sanggup buat apa sahaja untuk kita, anything you just name it.
For 22 years, you have been living together. Maybe in some cases not technically together, tp masih jauh dimata, dekat dihati. When life gets tough, she's the first person you look for. She gave you advice, keep you strong, your motivation to live. Tapi bila tiba2 she's gone, you felt like you life is now meaningless. Terasa begitu berat untuk mengharungi kehidupan yg akan datang
You have lost your biggest supporter, inspiration in life once one of your parents died. Tak kesah la either one of them left, you still felt empty. Mungkin kalau salah seorang meninggal, you still half your other half. Tapi kalau kau kehilangan kedua-duanya, I don't know how to explain the feeling. Just thinking about it already sound scary, apatah lagi kalau dah realitinya terjadi.
Memang benar mati itu pasti. But I hope that when it is time for my mum to leave the world, she has seen semua benda tentang aku. Dpt tgk anak2 dia semua berkeluarga. Dapat tgk at least anak2 aku cukup la. And that's my hope.
Love your parent while they're still alive. Kiss them, say that you love them walaupun dalam nada bergurau. Cium mereka walaupun kekadang kau saja nk mengusik anak2 buah kau..
That is what I do to my mum. Walaupun kekadang I was just peluk2, cium2 mak bila nk ngusik anak2 buah aku yg kecik2 tu, tp sebenarnya I was being real. Those kiss and hug are sincerely from me. Sebab my family aren't those kind of family yg bagi mereka, ciuman dan pelukan antara ibu-anak/bapa-anak adalah perkara biasa. It felt mcm krik2 kalau out of the blue kau buat mcm tu. So salah satu caranya, gitulah aku buat.
And my mum doesn't have to do anything to show how much she loves me.
Cause everything that she do for her children, are the proof of her unconditional love for you.
I love you Ma <3
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