kimK?

K, for maybe a week *mungkin lebih sbb sis kurang sikit bab2 gossip retis Malaysia ni. kihkih* , isu ni dok berlegar di social media. Yang mana, ada seorang fans ni, comment on this artist instagram picture *xmoh sebut nama. nnti kene bash. kihkih. but you know who I'm talking about* It is a picture of the artist and her friends, just posing for picture *she looks gorg as usual"

 
So, just like other of her fans, this particular fans commented on the picture stated her friends looks like Kim Kardashian *I have to agree. her friend does look ABIT like Kim K*. But instead of writing Kim Kardashian in full, the fan wrote, "mcm kimK yg depan tu* Tau la kan, words in todays world has evolved. Dulu, mana ada short2from ni. Kalau nak eja, semua eja penuh. skrg, kebanyakkan orang akan memendekkan perkataan tu sependek yang boleh. kekedang tu, sampai tak paham dibuatnya *sayalah tu. but not the part where people don't understand it. I used the normal shortform, like mcm, byk, etc*.

 
This artist took the comment in different understanding. She thought that the fans was saying something nasty, a really bad words, instead of the shorten for international artist. Then, the artist posted an instagram post, dedicated to this fan, stated that she insulted her and her friends, bla bla bla, and it goes viral. But the truth is, the fans was referring her friend as someone who looked like Kim Kardashian, not insulting here.

 
But I have to agree, at first it does look like an insulting words, kimK due to the small letter words in the letter k. If she wrote KimK, it does look like the name of Kim Kardashian. However! The artist herself shouldn't just straight away, attacking her fans. Without her fans, she wont be as popular as she is now, or maybe she wont be existed ever. What you're doing is more embarrassing that what she wrote which you misunderstand it. You took it too even more extreme level. Memalukan peminat awak padahal dia nk puji yg kawan awak tu look like KimK.

 
Last2, diri sendiri yang malu. Pastu tak mau minta maaf,. If I'm not mistaken, the woman a.k.a the one that commented on her picture, does apologize if what she wrote was insulting though she was just memuji kawan si retis itu. Yang si retis, takmoh minta maaf, and she even asked that fan to minta maaf, which she already did. When people started to sent hate comment, si retis buat police report *based on the picture in her instagram which she posted after the incident*
 

Apa susahnya nak ckp,

"I'm sorry if what I did embarrassed you, but it was because of the insulting comment I received from fans previously, so I thought, you wanna do the same thing. So I was trying to show those people, if you do it again, this what will happen. But I was wrong. So, with that, I am deeply sorry for what I did to you."

and that's the end. How easy was that?
 

Personally, it is better if you're the one that seek for apology from others though it wasn't your fault. Lebih mudah meminta maaf dahulu daripada menanti orang lain yang memintanya. I am that kind of person. Tak suka la tunggu orang nk minta maaf sbb selagi masih ada kemarahan dlm diri seseorang, hati ni tak tenang. Boleh sampai takleh tido dibuatnya.
 

So, pengajarannya disini, before taking any drastic action, just make sure what you do is right. Kalau boleh, jgn terus jump into conclusion "OH, She insulted me" walhal she was saying someone name in shortform. Alert about this shortform used on artist name. And jadi orang pertama yang ckp "I'm sorry".

Sampai situ tazkirah kita pada hari ini. *acah2 ustazah. kahkah*
Sampai kita ketemu lagi,
Assalamualaikum.

Love, Mira